For our play group this summer the local theater did a special showing of Cars 2 just for us at 10 in the morning. I normally wouldn't try taking all 3 of the kids to a movie, but since it was an exclusive "preschool" showing I knew it would work. Grace & Faith made it through the entire movie and seemed to enjoy it. The plot of the movie is definitely a bit more complicated. (I was even a bit confused towards the end, but I was wrestling a toddler) Titus did okay until the last 30 minutes or so... But, luckily I could walk with him and know the girls were being watched by all my other mom friends.
Friday, July 15, 2011
Cars 2 Movie
Impromptu Zoo Trip
Earlier this summer a huge storm came through our area in the middle of night. It was so strong it woke us up and within minutes we got the text saying that we were under a tornado warning. Quincy, the city Jeremy works in, was hit the hardest. Most of the city was without electricity for several days. Jeremy went to work but was unable to do much due to all the business being closed and so he got off work at 11 am.
We had been wanting to take a family trip to the zoo so on a whim we quickly packed a lunch to eat on the road and headed out for the zoo. It was very cloudy, but the weather was mild so we decided to chance the rain. As we drove the sky cleared off and it was the perfect day for the zoo!
I love surprises.
My Gracie
Lately I have been seeing some pretty awesome qualities in my little leader.
-Work Ethic
Grace has an incredible work ethic. She sees that the job gets done and its done right. She is helpful at cleaning her room, making her bed, in our garden, cleaning off the table, sweeping, etc. She really is helpful when she wants to be, and that is a lot of the time.
-Honest
Grace has always been an honest child. When Jeremy would come home when she was little and we had a rough day she would usually "confess her sins" before he barely got in the door. We would laugh (later) as she listed off all the things she had done that day. She continues to be honest and I often see conviction for her wrong actions when she knows she was wrong. (As long as its not a grey area we are good to go. This girl's black and white all over!)
-Thankful
Grace's prayers are often those of thanks. She used to always pray, "Thank you God for the WHOLE WIDE world." Recently she has shown her growing maturity by often praying, "Thank you God for sending your son Jesus down to earth to die for our sins."
-Nurturing
Grace is a little mother hen for sure. If I ever drop the ball she is close at hand to help me out. She is always quick to remind people Titus can't have dairy, grab her sister's blanket "pink", or remind her siblings of the rules.
I like to highlight these strengths because I am really learning how all my children's traits have a positive side and a more negative side and a spectrum in between. It is showing me how to redirect the negative behavior towards the more positive God-quality in them. For example, on the one hand Grace is nurturing but this can easily turn into being bossy. (I guess thats why I love being a mom (a full time nurturer- I was a pretty bossy kid)
The "traits" we are bent towards aren't always strictly good or bad. While I've always known being strong willed wasn't bad I am seeing that any strength carried out to an extreme can become your greatest weakness. I definitely see that in myself. I know that the positive strong work ethic I have can venture over into over commitment & burnout if I'm not careful. Even honesty when carried out to an extreme can cause difficulties. (I'm hearing that quote from Bambi in my brain "If you can't say something nice....)
Grace is definitely my daughter in the fact that she isn't big on change. As we prepare to sell our house she has suggested, "Mama, if we need a new house can't we just paint our yellow one a different color?" And I have flashbacks to myself laying on the pink carpet of our bathroom crying and thinking my parents were totally crazy for replacing it with linoleum. (Yeah....I was a bit crazy. Now you know why I worry so much about how the kids will do with a move...)
But, as an adult I know that God is in change. And I am so thankful for some of the "changes" I see in my daughter. I guess that 45 minute knock down drag out to pick up her crayons was worth it, huh? So, to all you mamas of 2 & 3 year olds take heart there are moments of reprieve somewhere around age 4 & 5. (But, don't tell Faith because we are still working on a couple of her "battles.")
Gracie,
I know you will be a strong leader for the Lord one day. I pray you will continue to be thankful and honest as you grow. I see so much of myself in you. I know you struggle with change and control. You want the world to be fair and just. You have such a strong sense of what is right and what is wrong. I pray that as you grow that will be defined by God's word. I love you baby girl!
Mama
Father's Day
Well, I have to say this was not my most organized Father's Day ever... But, my husband is very gracious none the less. We have started a tradition of making a piece of artwork each year. This year was a bit more planned and less abstract. We made this picture for him. The kids enjoyed doing their footprints and I know this piece will grow more special over time as we look back and can't believe how small they were!
When I asked the kids what they love about their daddy:
"He makes me laugh & I like to help him outside and get dirty." -Titus, 1 1/2 years ;)
"I love him. I like playing games with him. I like staying home with him." -Faith, 3 1/2 years
"I love everyday when Daddy comes home and I say- Boo! I like watching movies with my daddy and snuggling with him. I love my daddy."-Grace 5 years
Jeremy, you keep me sane, make me laugh, treat me like the queen of your castle, and have defined humility and hard work this past year for me. I love you more and more each passing year! I'm so thankful to have you as the daddy in our family. Love you!!
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